
Edited by Norma Goldman
Hammersmith Press
http://www.hammersmithpress.co.uk/
£12.99 ISBN: 978-1-905140-24-4
The Menopause – ask the experts has been compiled and written by the founder and director of The Menopause Exchange, pharmacist Norma Goldman. Members of The Menopause Exchange have benefited from the expertise of its unique Ask the Experts panel for many years. The panel is currently made up of 11 members: consultants and doctors specialising in gynaecology, the menopause and sexual and reproductive health, pharmacists, a senior nurse specialist in the menopause, dietitians and a menopause counsellor and psychotherapist. Now Norma Goldman has chosen the questions answered by the Ask the Experts panel that cover the key issues. She has put them into book form, so that other women can benefit from them too. The Menopause – ask the experts is an extensive practical guide to the menopause and its management, using real-life questions from women going through the menopause. It includes chapters on different menopausal symptoms (e.g. hot flushes and night sweats, bladder and vaginal changes, joint problems and emotional symptoms), osteoporosis, hormone replacement therapy (HRT), complementary therapies, nutrition and women’s health issues (e.g. breast cancer, hysterectomy and fibroids). Each chapter has a general introduction followed by the Ask the Experts questions and answers in an easy to read format. The information has been updated to reflect the latest guidelines, recommendations and medical opinions. An appendix discusses HRT and the risk of breast cancer, looking at the main research studies in this area. There’s also a glossary, index and useful help list of organisations and charities at the back of the book.
Whether you are going through the menopause or supporting someone who is, here is a truly authoritative source of facts and advice to see you through.
The following questions and answers have been taken from ‘The Menopause – ask the experts’ book.
Which alternative remedies work best for mood swings and anxiety?
Remember HALT: do not get Hungry, Angry, Lonely or Tired. Self-help is essential. Remember to do plenty of exercise, ideally 20-30 minutes a day but the more the better. Do not forget to get out in the daylight for at least an hour in each day and eat well. Taking warm to hot baths with aromatherapy oils for 20 minutes can also help as can learning relaxation techniques such as meditation or yoga. Any alternative medicine must be discussed with your health professionals and if you want to go down the alternative route it may be a good idea to see an appropriately trained and qualified CAM practitioner. Two registers to look at include the International Register of Consultant Herbalists and Homeopaths, http://www.irch.org/, and the National Institute of Medical Herbalists, http://www.nimh.org.uk/. St John’s Wort has been beneficial but one needs to be careful about interaction with other drugs that you may be on. If self-help has not worked it is important to go to discuss it with your medical doctor because drug therapy may be required.
I am 54 and going through the menopause. My main problem is bladder leakage when I sneeze or laugh and also when I’m at my aerobics class. It’s really putting me off going to the class. Are bladder problems caused by the menopause and what advice can you give me?
This is a very common problem, although the menopause itself may not be the direct cause. As you get older, the muscles in your pelvic floor become more lax, especially if you have had children. This results in a weakening in the muscles used to hold in urine and on exercise a small amount of urine leaks. It may also leak when pressure on the muscles is raised, by coughing or sneezing. If the problem is mild it can be helped by increasing the strength of the pelvic floor, through pelvic floor exercises. Ask your practice nurse for details. For more severe leakage, you may need an assessment. Possible treatments include medication or surgery. In any case, it is not a problem you simply have to put up with, so seek help.
My wife seems to be going through the menopause. She has hot flushes at least once a day and is often irritable. I have tried to bring up the subject but she just passes it off. How can I speak to her about her symptoms and urge her to seek help?
This needs diplomacy as well as compassion! Maybe you could say that you have noticed how uncomfortable the flushes are and would she like you to go with her to seek help? Or you could say that you have been reading about the menopause and wonder if she could tell you more about it. This might lead her into a more open discussion. Explain that you need to know more about it, to understand how she is feeling. Are there ‘triggers’ for her flushes or irritability? If you can identify these, you may be able to prepare for them and perhaps most of all, you can reassure her of your support. If she has a well-woman appointment soon, suggest she mentions it then.
My doctor says that I have to take progesterone as well as oestrogen in my HRT. Why is this?
If you have not had a hysterectomy, it is essential that you do not take oestrogen therapy on its own, but use a combined oestrogen/progestogen form of HRT. This is because oestrogen causes the uterine (womb) lining to thicken if used on its own. If allowed to develop for a long period of time, this could eventually be harmful to your uterus. The progestogen will prevent this from happening. It does not matter if you use monthly or continuous HRT, the progestogen is still important. Of course, if you have had a hysterectomy, this problem need not concern you!
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